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The Therapeutic Roots of 'Sitting Down NLP'

The Roots of Marin NLPPart the FirstMarin-style NLP is definitely something that is complicated to characterize, incredibly when you are looking at explaining how it is different. It offers much in common with conventional NLP, but it is very tremendously not-like-that at the same time. So, from time to time I would wish to share a small with you about where our types of this wonderful work come from.Their foundation is solidly inside the amazing work of John Grinder and Richard Bandler inside the 1970s. Following all, actually one of our Holographic NLP-level presuppositions is: "No thing how cosmic it gets, it's still all V's, A's and K's." You never receive too far away from this awareness, and whenever you do you return to it very swiftly.Although it is very based inside the NLP of the 1970s (what Robert Dilts calls "1st generation NLP), Marin NLP is not about tips and steps for tips. Marin NLP is greatly filtered through my (Carl's) connection with Dr. Jonathan Rice. Jonathan wasmy main teacher. He was alone of Richard and John's early pupils to become a credentialed specialist and Ph.D. psychologist. Jonathan added 1970s NLP into the job he was absolutely doing with his clients inside his practice inside Carmel, simply down the street from Santa Cruz. He researched with and stayed around John and Richard not because of the good charm, yet considering he observed them receive results with individuals who were past what he knew how to do. However, Jonathan did not dump his training and encounter because a psychologist."Jonathan-style NLP" is heavy about attention to hypnotic code, elegant utilize of the result frame, and close calibration of physiology-especially!!-physiology. Jonathan was determined to train himself to utilize Richard and John's amazing discoveries about accessing cues to observe and realize the structure of his very own clients' encounter. Jonathan never quit refining and extending this part of the NLP model. For instance, the "what stops you" real question is something you owe inside good part to Jonathan's persistence and creativity. In the earliest day's, "what stops you?" was asked for details about content (because inside, "Just ask the question and write down what they say"), not for the representational physiology of unaware protection patterning. "What are the V's and A's that are making the K's?" is Jonathan's question equally. (He didn't remember proverb it, yet he thought it was a good one whenever I brought it upwards, years later.)"Jonathan-style NLP" is equally something that is usually performed seated, not standing, and it expects the specialist to improvise and consistently adjust, so that no 2 sessions are identical, and also the tips, when they may be called that, are hidden inside the flow of life-revising rapport. Moreover, the specialist seeks to serve the customer, to not impress him or her with the practitioner's amazing private force. This should all be instantaneously and greatly recognizable to our NLP Marin pupils.I spent years switched with Jonathan. Anyone which knows Jon may sense this inside me, any time I am coaching or working with clients. I am greatly indebted to him.Part TwoThe Essential Reframe \n"From Intended Positive Outcomes to IPO's"In the spring of 1979, whenever I initially encountered the very unique field of knowledge called NLP, I was immensely relieved to locate inside it a wonderful "presupposition" about human experience:"All behavior has an meant positive result," \n(which was/is equally reported as) \n"Behind each behavior is an meant positive result."From here inside 2008, almost thirty years later, I don't remember when this statement about meant positives was formalized however, because a presupposition, or even when "The Presuppositions of NLP" existed inside codified shape. I heard that the idea seemed to come from John and Richard's exploration of the job of Virginia Satir, but remember thinking, "Virginia Satir, whoever you will be...path to take!"All alone, this line about meant positives was enough to create it worth my while to know a lot a lot more about NLP. It directly condensed a whole worldview into 7 or 8 words. Even better, the idea gave all of you humans credit for understanding what we are doing-even though our time are so often so weirdly down and compellingly hopeless. The presupposition resonated persistently with a thought that had appeared inside attention, elastic and sticky, several years before: "Being human is not a fallen condition!"For years, I had been getting increasingly crank with a variety of "growth" methods and "spiritual" movements inside which the main purchase of business was "purification" of several sort. It was as if the short-format version of these colleges was, "Greeting to physical fact. Big mistake! Today, here's how to recuperate and become worthy of something better." There was something so intrinsically and intensely disrespectful about this that I really couldn't assist yet think,"That has to be nuts."During now, I was equally still voraciously consuming the job of Jane Roberts and her co-conspirator, the channeled entity, Seth. Jane's writing was about "the eternal legality of the soul," yet what came through equally strongly was the intense "validity" of physical encounter. Years before, Seth/Jane had flattened me with the line, "In the physical atoms, the origins of all consciousness still play." Jane often published about the amazing imagination that goes into the achievement of being "firmly couched" inside physical fact. Because that's almost where I happened to be observing myself firmly couched then, I thought that has been good.So, you would begin to imagine my dismay because I found that much of the NLP globe, which I would visit respect because where "they" do conventional NLP, didn't take the frame of intended positives all that seriously. It was more like, "Behind each behavior it has an intended positive result, except for...(except when ever theperson's lifestyle is too awful...except when ever they had really cruel parents...except when ever these were misdiagnosed inside the next level...except when ever, definitely, they have nothing to do with what's gone so wrong...except for, really, they are-surely-the target, not the source, inside experience") Out of this type of nonsense have come "change patterns" that are past ugly, "techniques" with names like "Belief Crusher" and "Parts Annihilator," so on, basically, inside the constant, in-bred plague of "techniques" that is what NLP is for some of the world.I have purposefully made a completely hardball interpretation of Intended Positive Outcomes the foundation of our Marin-style NLP. I have actually extended the presupposition simply a little: "All behavior, and all experiences, have meant positive outcomes-no exceptions, ever." For me, this presupposition is the essential reframe that NLP provides the world. It is an significant and strong assertion. This is more significant than telling people about cybernetic this-and-that, for illustration. This is the idea that sets you aside.Because it preserves our proper dignity because aware beings, by needing regard for the legacy of our private environment, the attitude IPO frame (somewhere I started to abbreviate Intended Positive Outcomes into the form IPO's) greatly eases the encounter and processes of change. It allows you all to begin from where we're, without the need to pour vitality into fighting where we've been.By adhering to the worldwide legality of IPO's, you have been able grow the different appearance that is NLP, Marin-style. Our types of NLP, so basically rooted inside the amazing work of Bandler, Grinder, Robert Dilts, Jonathan Rice, and several wonderful people, however so completely different inside tone, are able to further the soul's gratification without dishonoring the life's intentions. And that is just the starting of the story.Meer Info\n

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